More and more, states are starting to allow schools to take children who are as young as four years old into kindergarten. Most parents, who've been pushing their very young children to do well with all those flashcards and Dora the Explorer ever since they have been toddlers, are jumping at the chance to give their children a head start. They are glad to see that their children are going to get their minds molded at an earlier age than before.
And yet, some parents see how hard their children have it. They see that even if it's called kindergarten, what goes on in there looks pretty much like first grade. They see teachers pushing difficult lessons and training on their young children. There is no fingerpainting, there are no sand tables; instead, there are worksheets and homework. Young children who find it physically hard to hold a pencil or who find it impossible to sit there and concentrate on a new task for a long time are being forced to the breaking point. Teachers are desperate to get young children ready for standardized tests as early as third grade. They don't want to waste a minute. And so, elementary school
But parents who see all of this and see what is being done to their children, sometimes choose to redshirts them. Redshirting is a term that's borrowed from sports. College athletes sometimes postpone the time they will enter competitive games. They try to give themselves more time to develop. Parents who wish to give their children more time to develop before the set them on the schooling treadmill, keep their children out of elementary school up until they are five or six sometimes.
It can seem terribly unfair to some that the cutoff age for when children become eligible to enter kindergarten for the first time can work in such a way that some children in any class will be a full year older than other children. These can be terribly important developmental years. A child who is 10 and in the same class with others who are 11, is going to feel a generation gap. A child who at 6 enjoys playing wargames is going to be terribly scary to a five-year-old who likes to sleep with his soft toy. Parents who redshirt their children want to give them the advantage that they don't have to ever be scared or be left out of any socializing circles. Sometimes, being a little slow can be better.