I decided to volunteer my services at an adult literacy group meeting at our local library as a result of my encounter with the man at the supermarket, and I talked to a counselor about adult learning disabilities and the affects they can have on a person. He informed me that the biggest problem is that many adults see such disabilities as a source of shame and will not seek out help for them because they are afraid they will be seen as stupid.
The counselor told me that such things as dyslexia, ADHD, and other adult learning disabilities are correctable and that people who have such problems usually find that addressing them opens up a whole new world. I was still not convinced, so I started to talking to some of the members of the group to get their perspectives.
The first man I spoke to told me that he did, in fact, suffer from dyslexia. He said that he had pretty much given up on reading, because the words would get scrambled in his mind. A few years ago, he was in an accident and became permanently disabled, and told me that he got tired of spending all of his time watching television. He said he envied his friends who could read and said he felt he had missed out on so much. After finally seeking help, he told me that within a few months, his dyslexia was almost a non-issue for him.
I was absolutely amazed. Here was a man suffering from one of the most proliferate adult learning disabilities, and yet he essentially corrected it within a few months with some simple techniques he had learned to unscramble words.
Another woman who had a host of adult learning disabilities and had never graduated high school was waiting for her GED to be mailed to her. She had just passed her equivalence exam and was getting set to start college. I asked her what she had done to turn things around, and she said she finally got up the courage to ask the local librarian about such services.
Adult learning disabilities can be overcome. It just takes a little bit of courage, patience and perseverance, but they can definitely be conquered.